Sometimes, it’s hard to find a better direction. Then comes a thousand of thoughts of how to choose the right way to go through the right path. Afterall, we’ve to make a decision and choose a path. And we do. But, most of the times, it’s not like, “I’ve chosen the path, now I’ll go through it which will be straight and clear.” It never happens like that. Paths are not that easy. We find many small ways in the main one. It’s always hard to choose the better one. Every time we take the small wrong decision, it fills our heart and mind with regrets. Then we think about making it right, returning from the wrongly chosen path and selecting the better one back again. But it’s never that easy. We think about making it right. We try to make it right but it doesn’t happen in the way we want to. Again comes more regrets about the things not going in the planned way. Then we start overthinking. And it creates new problems in our mind. Then we get stuck thinking about the problems which weren’t even there in the first place. It’s hard to stop thinking.
Me myself going through these has taught me a lot about how to deal with the problems like these. It’s not easy to get away from the regrets. First thing is we’ve to learn from the mistakes. And we’ve to be very careful about not committing it again. Asking for the forgiveness can be very difficult if we don’t prepare ourselves for our apology not being accepted or the whole thing going ignored. Right after those preparations, we’ve to make ourselves believe that I’ve done my part quite well and I’m gonna move on from it. And if we don’t start collecting the positivities and don’t move on then, in no time we go through the depression.
I hope this doesn’t happen to you. And if this happens, try to grab and hold on to the positive energy as fast as you can, before it’s too late. Longer you feel regretful, longer you’ll be depressed and longer it will take time to come out of it. And, trust me, no one can help you get away with it. Only you can. And even if you expect to get a little help from the other party, then you’re doomed. Because expectations are the pathways that lead us into the depression. Once you start expecting, your expectations will only increase. In no time you’ll be building a beautiful home in your heart based on those teeny tiny expectations. And once you hear something else instead of what you want to hear, then all of your expectations will die. You’ll feel hurt to see it die. But you won’t be able to do anything. The home that you made based on those expectations will destroy. But, you won’t be able to save it. Because none of those expectations met which were the foundations of the house. So, make sure to have no expectations at all.
Let the negative energy flow away. Hold on to the positivity. Have no expectations. Accept reality from the heart.